How does one succeed in life?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

That's it for today.

What life lesson did you learn the hard way?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

S&P 500 to Soar on Fading Tariffs Impact, Analysts Say - Barron's

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Can anyone show a photo with a penis in their anus?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Israel launches several attacks on Beirut’s southern suburbs, south Lebanon - Al Jazeera

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

I see ugly guys dating gorgeous, "hot" women all the time. I, too, am not very attractive but I'm not doing well with the ladies. What's their secret?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Djokovic vs Norrie: Things we learned - Roland Garros

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What would be the lowest score with 9 strikes and no gutter balls?

Procrastinates a lot.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

How did the Nazis figure out whether a person or community is 'Aryan' or not?

Making more friends is a goal.

What I need from you?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Elon Musk’s Reign of Corruption Chronicled in Elizabeth Warren Report - Rolling Stone

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Video: 27 Exciting New Games Coming To Nintendo Switch 1 & 2 In June 2025 - nintendolife.com

Does not procrastinate.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Dolphins place Terron Armstead on reserve-retired list - NBC Sports

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Why do some men like anal sex?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why is Donald Trump criticized by so many people?

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Is it okay if I am not interested to talk to any of my relatives as I saw the real faces in my brother's marriage as none of them helped us rather were a kind of disappointment and were talking bad?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Do you know of a female masseuse that does door-to-door service in Bangalore?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Ask yourself: